Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy. (Prov. 31:8-9)
Who out there loves confrontation? Not me. Unfortunately, it is a necessary element in growth, maturity and certainly in leadership. Have you ever witnessed something that was clearly wrong or harmful and felt your gut twist as you wondered if you should say something? Or even worse, have you ever been in a situation like the one I mentioned above where other people witnessed the same thing you did, but nobody said anything? As much as we hate to rock the boat and as easy as it would be to turn a blind eye, sometimes God calls us to be the ones to have that brave conversation.
Having brave conversations is worth it.
Brave conversations demonstrate that we are willing to stand up and fight for our values.
Brave conversations show that we are willing to use our voice to stand up for what is right.
Brave conversations allow us to speak up for those who can’t speak up for themselves.
Brave conversations help us to defend and protect our loved ones and our families.
Brave conversations facilitate true love and friendship.
Brave conversations help us to establish credibility as leaders, as people learn that we aren’t afraid to share what we truly think or feel.
Brave conversations help us to expose blind spots with love and with grace.
Don’t just be the person that sees something. Be the one to say something.