Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves, for the rights of all who are destitute. Speak up and judge fairly; defend the rights of the poor and needy. (Prov. 31:8-9) Who out there loves confrontation? Not me. Unfortunately, it is a necessary element in growth, maturity and certainly in leadership. Have you ever witnessed something that was clearly wrong or harmful and felt your gut twist as you wondered if you should say […]
The Importance of Loving You
“I love each of you with the same love that the Father loves me. You must continually let my love nourish your hearts.” (John 15:9) This Valentine’s Day will be different for me. This time around I’m married. I’ve found my forever person to spend every Valentine’s Day with now going forward. Praise Jesus. And while I am so excited for this new beginning, this morning I find myself reflecting on all the Valentine’s Days […]
Let’s Talk About It: Effective Communication in Relationships
Indeed, we all make many mistakes. For if we could control our tongues, we would be perfect and could also control ourselves in every other way. (James 3:2) Effective communication is the relationship goal that we should all be after. Let’s face it. Effective communication can make or break a relationship. However, communicating our needs or navigating conflict with a loved one isn’t always easy. Here are some good strategies for keeping the communication flowing […]
The River Called Peace
For this is what the Lord says: “I will extend peace to her like a river…” (Isaiah 66:12) I looked towards the sky above me. I was surrounded by tall rock walls and a canopy of tropical trees. The scene was gorgeous. The warmth of the sun felt heavenly, as I floated along the lazy river. I smiled. The King and I glided through the river on huge inflatable tubes. Mine was bright pink and […]
Recapture the Moment
Lately, I have been studying and reading about the brain. Dr. Caroline Leaf has amazing materials regarding brain science and how it correlates to scripture. Right now, I am reading her book The Perfect You, which I highly recommend. Dr. Leaf speaks a lot about how we always have the power to think, choose and feel. Our brains are very amenable to change. By thinking about what we are thinking about, we have the power […]
The Cave of Fear
With the wind at my back, I make my ascent up the Mountain of Life with my Lion King at my side. We enjoy one another’s companionship through the heat of the day and the cool of the night. Our hearts have become intertwined and with each passing day I feel more free and fully me. Along the way, we encounter the entrance to a cave marked Fear. I hear the whispered hush of voices […]
The Lion and the Lioness
I see the Lion of Judah calling His Brave One. She may not see the brave in her, but He sees it. She is worn and tired from the fight. She at times feels wounded, despised, damaged and broken. But I see her rising up from the ashes, as she hears the gentle whisper of The Lion calling her away. Although she feels great fear, she chooses to go anyway. She chooses to leave the […]
No Shame in My Game
Song of Songs 1:5-6, 9-11 (TPT) The Shulamite Jerusalem maidens, in this twilight darkness[j] I know I am so unworthy—so in need. The Shepherd-King Yet you are so lovely! The Shulamite I feel as dark and dry as the desert tents of the wandering nomads.[k] The Shepherd-King Yet you are so lovely— like the fine linen tapestry hanging in the Holy Place. The Shepherd-King My dearest one,[p] let me tell you how I see you— […]