Give it a Rest

Anxiety is a theme that keeps coming up lately.  More and more I am hearing that Christians I know are  battling with it.  Even at work, several of my clients have shared with me with tear-filled eyes that they are scared all of the time.  One told me she was afraid to leave her house.  The other told me she only experienced peace outside of her house.  I believe that the body of Christ is […]

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God Didn’t Promise You a White Picket Fence

Lately, I have been thinking alot about my dreams and what I want my future to look like.  My perspective has changed alot over the years.  I have always assumed all my life that someday I would be married with two or three kids living in a big house somewhere.  That would be the dream.  I think most people grow up thinking like this.  There is nothing wrong with dreaming.  It’s good to dream. I […]

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Changed Hearts. Transformed Lives.

I have grown up in the Charismatic stream of Christianity.  For those unfamiliar with that terminology, “charismatic” is the word used to describe churches that believe in the gifts of the Holy Spirit.  Charismatic churches believe in the gift of speaking in tongues, the prophetic, creative miracles, etc.  So, in charasmatic circles, we really emphasize the work of the Holy Spirit.  It’s not uncommon in a Charismatic church to see some really unusual behavior, as […]

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How Can a Young Man Keep His Way Pure?

In 1 Peter 1:13-16, we are told, “Therefore, preparing your minds for action, and being sober-minded, set your hope fully on the grace that will be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ.  As obedient children, do not be conformed to the passions of your former ignorance, but as he who called you is holy, you also be holy in all your conduct, since it is written, ‘You shall be holy, for I […]

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Identity Crisis and the War on Truth

Lately, issues of identity have been making headline news.  Bruce Jenner becomes a woman.  As it turns out, the now ex-leader of the NAACP Rachel Dolezal isn’t even black.  Despite what race or gender these individuals were born with, we are told that it’s not the issue.  Rather, the issue is how they “identify.”Jenner identifies as female and Dolezal has stated that she identifies as black. *Before I dive in to my thoughts on this […]

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On Dating: Understanding the Influence of your Choices

I don’t want to get all Taylor Swift here by putting boys on blast, but I do want to share with you my perspective on some personal situations I have gone through to offer some words of advice and encouragement where it pertains to the opposite sex.  I have never dated anyone before.  To be truthful, I’m not upset about it, because there were times when I wanted to date that I wasn’t ready to […]

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It’s Time to be a Big Girl Now

This week God has been speaking to me about being a big girl.  The job where I am currently working is my first full-time with benefits position.  When I got the job, I referred to it as my big girl job.  I bought a big girl purse and started wearing big girl clothes.  All that means is that I stopped carrying my plaid backpack to work every day and traded my jeans and a t-shirt […]

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It’s Okay to Be a Hot Mess (Just Be Honest About It)

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. (Gal. 6:2) I have been through alot of rough stuff in my short 26 years of life.  Many of my friends have also dealt with their own fair share of really rough life experiences.  Parent’s divorce, abuse, alcoholism and drug addiction in families, death of loved ones, horrific break ups, you name it.  I’m sure you could rattle off a […]

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This Is My Fight Song

The other day I was driving home and I happened to catch Rachel Platten’s “Fight Song” on the radio.  I am a sucker for any song that’s motivational and inspiring.  If you are not familiar with the song, the chorus goes like this: “This is my fight song.  Take-back-my-life song.  Prove-I’m-alright song.  My powers turned on.  Starting right now I’ll be strong.  I’ll play my fight song.  And I don’t really care if nobody else […]

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Letting Love In

But God demonstrates His own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. (Rom. 5:8) The other day I had an interesting conversation with a friend.  We were talking about God and the concept of walking out a day by day relationship with Jesus.  My friend said something that struck me as being so profound.  She said, “I believe that God is not more distant from one person than […]

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